Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. [2Co 1:3 RSV]
Some days what I see right in front of me are challenges and when I attempt to see beyond them anxiety empties me and I am filled with lethargy. I can choose to go with this feeling, to sit in self-absorbing distress in front of the TV with a bag of chips. And believe me, I have done this. Or, I can turn to what I know is true. Love.
Another word for Comfort is Contentment – Santosha is the Sanskrit word for contentment and is one of the Niyamas (rules of behavior) in the eight limbs of yoga. It means finding peace within you when outer experience causes distress. The big things, like losing a loved one or loss of a job or home can be overwhelming and comparably small things like financial difficulty, conflict at home or work or just having way too much on our plate create emotional and physical pain. Even the anticipation of these creates dis-contentment. What it is within me that can bring relief? “To be or not to be” content is really the question.
It is interesting that in New Testament Scripture (NIV) Jesus never used the word “comfort”. He does use the word “Love” 217 times. “Love God , Love your neighbor, Love your enemy” are foremost in his direction. He goes on with stories of what that looks like. It is the decision to Love God and not money, it is the generosity of sharing loaves and fish, and it is the help toward healing of the Samaritan. It is in His example to go into the garden or up on the mountain alone to pray that I find my direction.
In the quiet space and time of meditation I focus on Love. I use it as a mantra along with “peace be still” (Mark 4:39 ) to slow my breath and busy mind. Here I come to the truth of Love. Love is not always comfortable but it always comforts and God’s love fills my empty spaces with light so that I can see there is nothing in the present or future that can’t be healed. I remember with gratitude those who have and will help me and I am inspired to be a help of Love to others. Peace and contentment fill me now, for this day.
May you find peace and contentment this week.